When things in your life
seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember
the mayonnaise jar and the 2 Beers.
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of
him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty
mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the
students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar.
He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the
golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed
it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was
full.. The students responded with a unanimous 'yes.'
The professor then produced two Beers from under the table and poured the
entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand.The
students laughed..
'Now,' said the professor as the laughter subsided, 'I want you to recognize
that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important
things---your family, your children, your health, your friends and your
favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they remained,
your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter
like your job, your house and your car.. The sand is everything else---the
small stuff.
'If you put the sand into the jar first,' he continued, 'there is no room
for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have
room for the things that are important to you.
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Spend time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
grandparents. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will
always be time to clean the house and mow the lawn.
Take care of the golf balls first---the things that really matter. Set your
priorities. The rest is just sand.
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the Beer represented.
The professor smiled and said, 'I'm glad you asked.' The Beer just shows you
that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of
Beers with a friend.
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Puthpong
Sao:
While the
professor was pouring the beers into the jar, a belated student, out of breath,
burst into the room saying, "A well-done e-x-p-l-a-n-a-t-i-o-n! But there
must be another important thing the professor might have missed in his
illustration!"
Though water -- and anything liquid -- can penetrate room
between solid particles like sand, another substance can penetrate water -- AIR
and its relatives -- gazes, he went on.
All the
class turned to him as if he was the real lecturer when he commented, "For
instance, without Oxygen in unpolluted water, fish and other aquatic and
overland living things even human beings cannot live or have their existence on
earth, and we all cannot write, read or say anything now."
He
continued, "It is those substances of lower and lower density that are
perching over our life -- the Whole Globe. What about the problems of global
warming? Who are responsible for, and who are to suffer from, these problems? Air is Everything and Polluted Air means Death. It penetrates all that exists --
our body (blood, brain ...,) words, mind; all substances, etc -- solid and
liquid alike."
"I mean 'our global common cause is the root of life and happiness on our planet Earth,'" he finished his interpretation under vociferous applause of the class.
(Phnom Penh,
Kingdom of Cambodia)
